Ruby Wax talks about what it is like to live with depression for Time to Change


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Transcript:
>>Ruby Wax:You see the thing about depression is – and why people feel – well I feel a lot of shame is that there is nothing wrong with you on the outside.
I mean you know you don’t have any lumps, or you don’t have any scars. You are not in a wheelchair. So people go “Come on, come on!” Especially in England they say “Stiff upper lip; snap out of it.”
And you can’t. I mean it is like being pregnant; you are either pregnant or you are not.
So when you are sick it is the real thing. I mean you know it. It is not like you are sitting on your porch singing the blues with a banjo because your baby has left you.
I mean this is deep, dark, numbing abyss hell. So you will know when you have got it; but the point is nobody will believe you and that is the kind of horror of it all.
And the other thing I need to say and it is really a shaming thing is I hope you don’t feel that it is just people on television who have this.
You know that – I mean that is embarrassing for me is that people think “Well you have got it all; you have got a career; you have got kids and stuff.” But it hits everybody
and the shame of this is – another shame – is that you know Mrs Who-is-not-on-television is going to be really embarrassed because she is going to think “Ooh am I being self-indulgent?”
So there are all those people all over the world; all over one in four, who are suddenly going to feel like suicide; or are going to feel really ill; or really numb; or really frightened
because they don’t quite understand what this thing is.
So if you have got it you have really got it; so you have got to do something about it.
I like medication – or you can see a shrink. But do one or the other; or both.
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